16 May 2017
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction

Stress is a common part of life, but managing it effectively is essential for maintaining both mental and physical well-being. As a therapist trained in mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR), I help clients cultivate present-moment awareness to manage stress more effectively. Stress often stems not just from external events, but from our internal responses—worrying about the future, ruminating on the past, or reacting impulsively to current pressures. Through MBSR, I guide clients in developing a new relationship with stress, one rooted in observation rather than reactivity. Together, we work to bring gentle, nonjudgmental awareness to thoughts, emotions, and bodily sensations, allowing space for clarity and calm to emerge.

In our sessions, I teach foundational mindfulness practices such as breath awareness, body scans, and gentle movement. These tools help clients reconnect with their bodies and ground themselves when stress feels overwhelming. I also integrate these practices into real-life situations, helping clients respond to stressors with intention rather than habit. Over time, this consistent mindfulness practice can lead to a greater sense of control, improved emotional regulation, and increased resilience in the face of challenges.

Beyond the techniques, mindfulness encourages a shift in mindset toward acceptance, self-compassion, and presence. I support clients in exploring how they relate to themselves and their experiences, helping them move away from self-criticism and toward a more balanced, compassionate inner dialogue. MBSR isn’t about eliminating stress but changing how we relate to it. I’m here to walk alongside my clients in that process, offering guidance, support, and practical tools to cultivate a calmer, more centered way of living.

16 May 2017
Couples Therapy
Couples Therapy

As a therapist, I support couples by creating a safe, respectful, and non-judgmental environment where both partners can feel heard and understood. One of the first steps in couples therapy is helping each person articulate their needs, feelings, and concerns constructively. I facilitate open and honest communication, guiding the couple away from blame and defensiveness and toward deeper listening and mutual understanding. Often, simply being able to express oneself and be truly heard can begin to shift the dynamic in powerful ways.

I also help couples identify and unpack recurring patterns or cycles that may be causing conflict or disconnection. These patterns often stem from unmet emotional needs or past experiences, and bringing them to light allows couples to approach their relationship with greater awareness and compassion. By exploring each partner’s attachment styles, emotional triggers, and communication habits, I help them understand the “why” behind their interactions, which is key to making lasting changes.

In our work together, I introduce practical tools for resolving conflict, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional and physical intimacy. Whether the couple is dealing with specific issues such as infidelity, parenting challenges, or life transitions, or they simply want to deepen their connection, I tailor our sessions to their unique goals and values. My role is not to take sides, but to support the relationship as a whole, helping each person show up with curiosity, accountability, and a renewed sense of hope for what their partnership can become.

16 May 2017
Mindfulness Training

Mindfulness Training

30 years ago, I began training in martial arts, meditating, and practicing mindfulness. That training has profoundly impacted my life and helped me understand the importance of presence and being in the present moment, and how it can significantly reduce suffering and increase well-being.

In my training, practice, and teaching, I utilize a synthesis of approaches based on various 2500-year-old forms and lineages of mindfulness.

Direct teaching and training with Jack Kornfield, Dr Dan Siegel, and Dr. Shauna Shapiro have helped embed the heartfelt wisdom of Buddhism and Loving Awareness with empirically proven neuroscience and the framework of interpersonal neurobiology. These approaches have been rigorously studied and have been proven to reduce the impact of anxiety, depression, grief, chronic pain and illness, and trauma while lessening reactivity and improving emotional regulation.


16 May 2017
Basketball Therapy
Basketball Therapy

Former Division 1 College Coach working with both adolescents and young adults, doing both individual therapy work and individual performance training. Utilizing basketball as a therapy modality to work with anxiety, depression, and other challenges. Providing individual one-on-one player development coaching with a focus on using mindfulness to help create flow states to improve performance with specific training on shooting form, defensive footwork, countermoves, ball handling, balance, and creating a mental edge.

15 May 2017
Grief and Loss
Grief and Loss

The loss of a loved one, family member, pet, or friend is one of the most profound experiences of emotional pain that can be felt. As humans, we feel that pain deeply, and it cannot be moved through easily. I specialize in helping you move mindfully through that pain at a pace that is right for you with presence, care, love, and understanding. You might be noticing that in a single day (or even a single hour) that you might vacillate between feeling shock and disbelief, numbness, anger, guilt, disconnection, or overwhelmed with tears, and all of those are normal parts of the grief response. Loss is like a knife in your heart or belly that you can’t remove, and it is so very different than physical pain, where we can treat the wound by putting a compress, or bandage on, or by taking pain medication. Unlike physical pain, grief cannot be escaped and instead can only be moved through,h and I can guide you through this process.

15 May 2017
Sports & Business Performance
Sports & Business Performance

Whether you are a business professional/executive or a high school, college, or pro athlete, dancer, or martial artist, being able to attain peak performance through emotional regulation and increased confidence is key to success. Learning the delicate balance of quieting and focusing the mind while being wholeheartedly invested is key to finding flow states and achieving optimal performance. I have coached and taught division one college basketball, been a head instructor at a martial arts school, competed internationally, and danced professionally over the last 25 years. This experience, combined with my training in interpersonal neurobiology, mindfulness, and brain science, provides great insight into how to remove obstacles, increase resiliency, and help clients instill an embodied sense of confidence. Over the last 5 years, I have had the opportunity to work integrally with clients ranging from Fortune 500 business executives and pro athletes seeking to reach peak performance to young athletes and scholars who are just beginning their journeys. Through a combination of mindfulness-based performance and awareness strategies and performance-based EMDR brain work, I can help you both grow personally and professionally while learning to access and remain in “flow” states.

 

15 May 2017
Attachment-Focused EMDR
Attachment-Focused EMDR

Trained directly by Dr. Laurel Parnell, I have completed parts I, II, & III (advanced EMDR training) as well as Laurel’s Attachment-Focused EMDR training course, which focuses on developmental repair and healing developmental deficits and adults abused as children. EMDR is utilized to address and treat both single incident and complex trauma, as well as anxiety, depression, grief, and many other types of trauma. I also utilize a variety of different EMDR techniques to enhance performance in both athletics and professional business settings. EMDR treatment is unique in that it is tailored to each individual and is both a collaborative and artistic endeavor that we work as a team to employ to move the mind and body towards its natural inclination to heal and find equilibrium and well-being.

EMDR (or Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) was developed by Dr. Francine Shapiro and is a powerful therapy modality utilized to treat both single incident and complex trauma and many of the challenges related to the impact trauma has on people’s lives, ranging from anxiety and depression to grief. The process of EMDR utilizes bilateral stimulation (alternating taps or sounds on each side of the body) to activate both the right and left hemispheres of the brain to integrate traumatic memory and body sensations as trauma is stored in the nervous system and often at the age it occurred. When someone endures trauma, the experience is stored on the right side (or emotional side) of the brain and therefore not integrated into the left side (or logical side) of the brain, which makes sense of our experiences. EMDR helps integrate the experience of trauma into a coherent narrative that shifts a person’s experience of what happens and allows those traumatic memories and experiences to be placed in the proper file folders, which often creates considerable relief from their symptoms. Although EMDR is a powerful tool and can create dramatic improvements, there is no timeline for EMDR work, as each person’s experience and processing will be different, and EMDR must first and foremost be focused on safety. Also, EMDR processing doesn’t work for everyone, and some traumatic experiences are not a good fit for EMDR, especially for individuals who dissociate or have dissociative disorders. EMDR is multifaceted, artistic, and creative as well as collaborative, and you will be directly involved in all decision-making regarding the EMDR work that you undertake. Think of me as a guide who will swim beside you side by side into the ocean of your experiences, understand the currents and the safety needed to proceed, and work with you collaboratively to help facilitate healing. EMDR is about unlocking the human capacity for healing and movement towards well-being through integration. This work can take time and patience, often brings up difficult memories or experiences, and must be done with great care.

15 May 2017
Individual Psychotherapy
Individual Psychotherapy

By combining a trauma-informed person-centered approach with awareness training and interpersonal neurobiology, I work with you collaboratively to support getting you through the most difficult times or by helping you fine-tune your personal development to become the best version of yourself. Services and expertise: Attachement-Focused EMDR, for single incident or complex trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, family challenges, leadership and performance development for both sports and business, personal development, basketball therapy, and mindfulness training.

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